Hey girls.  I just want to say that we love you both more than anything in the whole world.  Kierra and I have been unhappy for a while and have not been able to treat each other the way that we both need to be treated.  We feel that it would be the best choice at this point to live apart and get a divorce.  Do you have any questions or thoughts?  I just want to let you know that we are both here for you and we want to hear about how you're feeling through all of this.  All I know for certain is that things in life don't always happen like you would have hoped.  And when things go wrong, we have to feel our feelings, talk about them until they feel a little better and find strength from our experiences and move forward with love and kindness.  I promise that this will work out for the best and we will all be happy in the long run.